18 Responses to “Creating a Minimalistic Sanctuary”

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  1. Amy

    On my nightstand now is a big stack of magazines I’ll never read, a lamp, an alarm clock and my container of nail polish from the last time I did my nails. And don’t get me started on what’s in the drawer and on the floor around it. I’ll be cleaning it off tonight. Great advice!

  2. susan

    I just discovered your blog and I’m really excited! Our nightstand is pretty clear (I hate piles especially in the bedroom). Just a book/magazine to read, alarm clock, lamp… and a glass of water! (for the same reason as you! haha!) We have a drawer on the nightstand but it basically holds nothing… what else do you need before you sleep?!

  3. Make sanctuary is actually a walk in closet! All it has is a desk and my laptop. I just leave it open with a text editor and write away.

  4. Thanks for a great post. Sometimes I want to do too much at once. Your comment about mindfully considering each area is important. I did a bedroom clean out a while back, but need to go at it again. It does need to be a restful place of calm and quiet. Thanks.

  5. I’ve tried to take this very concept outside. While the famed “Man Cave” is traditionally a chock-a-clock full space of virility and testosterone, my family created a simple space in a once unused portion of our yard as a Father’s Day present. Calling it “Dadtopia” and overlooking our vegetable garden, they outfitted it with a homemade hammock, some Tibetan prayer flags, and a few pieces of wooden artwork that the kids made. While I can’t get out there as often as I like, when I do, I simply swing in the breeze, gaze out at the sky and garden and just contemplate the awesomeness of Life.

    Sure, it doesn’t fit the traditional Man Cave mold, but it is a sanctuary nonetheless. We all need one of these spaces. Thanks for helping to motivate their creation! Be well.

  6. meg

    We have managed to do without nightstands for the past couple of years, and it is great. There’s a windowsill on one side of the bed, and a sort of built-in ledge in the wall on the other side, so there’s a place to set a glass of water and a watch. We used to have nightstands that gathered every sort of useless clutter, plus a digital clock. The clock’s numbers were so bright that it was hard to get back to sleep if we happened to wake up in the middle of the night. Now we use the illuminating button on our watches. My watch has a vibrating alarm so I wear it if I need to get up at a set time, which is a gentle way to have an alarm, but waking naturally by daylight is best. There is an architect’s lamp affixed to the wall on each side of the bed for reading, and we each only have one book at a time, plus a crossword puzzle book. It’s simple and peaceful, and easy to keep that way.

    • Courtney Carver

      Meg, I have been thinking about an alarm clock alternative but don’t know if I could sleep with a watch. I also wish I could train my body to just wake up but after 41 years, not sure that is going to happen!

  7. I don’t have a nightstand myself and I’ve been attempting to simplify our bedroom. The real sanctuary for me though is our extra bedroom that has nothing but my yoga mat, meditation cushion, incense, and windows looking out into our lush back yard. I’m so grateful to have this room for unwinding. It’s been amazing!

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