Simple Blogging Virtues
My friend Joshua Becker recently wrote about what he’s learned from blogging in a post called 11 Life Lessons Learned from Blogging. It’s wonderful and I agree with every thing he said. I’m pleased to share his post and borrow his idea.
I’d like to add a few virtues that you will develop and strengthen from blogging.
Patience
Writing may come naturally, but the behind the scenes technology of blogging does not. I’ve become more patient with every website crash and tumble.
Gratitude
With every reader click, email, tweet, and feedback, I am overwhelmed with gratitude. When I had 10 readers, I was grateful for each comment and amount of time that someone spent with my words. With thousands of readers, that hasn’t changed. If you think you are only capable of a certain amount of love and gratitude, I want to tell you that your capability is limitless.
Humility
I say “I don’t know” a lot. I laugh at myself. I trust others to help and am honored to be helpful.
Confidence
Before I send the note or a blog post into the world, I ask myself if it’s good enough. Sometimes I think it is, but I never really know until you tell me. Over time, I’ve become more and more confident that what I write will matter to someone and that makes it good enough for me.
Resilience
Writing for a growing blog and developing other projects for a sustainable business takes resilience. The words don’t always come easy, bad ideas get in the way. Limitations, excuses, fear and a host of other things will try to keep you distracted. You will fall and fail and then you get back up and go again.
Sharing
Writers ask me for permission to share a post that I’ve written and my answer is always the same. “Please feel free to use any of my work to share with your readers.” Sometimes people use my work and call it their own. That used to really bother me, but now, I know it doesn’t hurt me in any way and I’m glad the words are out there. I borrowed the idea for this post from Joshua Becker without asking. Sharing is good for the person sharing, the person borrowing, and everyone else involved.
Collaboration
Coming from a very competitive sales background, I was excited to embrace the collaborative spirit of blogging and entrepreneurship. With that, I’ve developed life long friendships and savvy business partners. I was raised up in the unfamiliar territory of blogging by people who in any other atmosphere would have been my competitors. Today they are my friends.
Openness
Before I decided that I would quit my job and run my own business, I had my work life well-defined. Now I don’t know what things will be like this time next year, or next month. I am open to opportunity, uncertainty, and giving things time and space to unfold.
If you have thought about starting a blog, I highly recommend it. Write about things that you care about, from your experience. With your unique perspective you will inspire, inform and entertain and learn more about yourself than you ever thought possible. If you have a blog, thank you. Thank you for sharing, thank you for writing, thank you for giving your gifts to the world.
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I love this! Especially the one about being confident! Blogging can make me so self-conscious and cause me to second-guess myself, but you’re completely right that every story matters. Thanks for sharing!
I found the comment on Sharing a particular important reminder for me. I still haven’t worked out why I’m so protective of my ideas and things I’ve created. When I reflect on my truly great work – it has always been better when I’ve shared it for both review, and sharing.
just wanted to say that I LOVE the part about our capacity for love and gratitude being limitless. needed to hear that today. THANKS!
Beautiful post Courtney, I had never really put too much thought into how I have benefit from blogging but wow it’s true there are so many benefits. I love the collaboration and support I get from fellow bloggers that is priceless to me.
I love my blog for so many of the reasons you posted above. In this particular case collaboration runs high on the list.
I did learn on my original website of over 10 years to get over people copying me. I learned to start viewing it as a form of knowing I was doing something right and really well! Now my own writing ideas sometimes does come from another great blog I read and it got me to thinking. I cannot say I reinvent the wheel every time.
And my big blog “like” this week was I got listed with people like you as 25 Sizzling Female Bloggers! That one really made my day.
Hi Courtney,
I have been following you from a while. I found you on zenhabits and love the perspectives here.
This post has inspired me to blog more openly. I just started my “Personal development for conscious-action-takers” blog and and had lost the track of what matters.
Thank you for the reminder.
I just had to write a summary of what I learned from participating in the Blogging A to Z Challenge, & many of the traits listed herein are things I found myself grateful for as well. It’s amazing what the blogging community can do for a person. Glad to know “we’re all in this together”.
What a lovely post. I particularly like the line “If you think you are only capable of a certain amount of love and gratitude, I want to tell you that your capability is limitless”, and your comments on sharing.
I just popped across to the Big Unplug post, via Tricia at Little Eco Footprints, and now I’m exploring