Simplicity In Action: Paul
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Paul
My form of simplicity may seem odd. It’s a simplicity derived from deep analysis of the complexity of my world. I first started down this path after reading two amazing books, both written by Harvard professors. The first is titled The Laws of Simplicity by John Maeda. The second is titled Einstein’s Dreams
These books approach simplicity from very different perspectives, but both zero in on the notion that achieving true simplicity requires fully understanding the complexity of the situation we are trying to simplify. Thus, instead of giving things up or setting artificial limits on what I possess or can do, I’ve spent many months considering what it is that moves me intellectually and emotionally and why.
Stripping away all my pre-conceived ideas about success and progress, I have relentlessly pursued defining my underlying motivations. The result has been a sharpening of focus and a blending of efforts towards are more fulfilling lifestyle. I still work hard, but now it’s with a very clear objective: to communicate to others how very important (and scarce) time is. My recreational activities are paired down to the few thing I love and can make time to do. My social life includes only those with whom I feel a strong connection. I’ve even gone through the house and cleared away all that doesn’t tell a story. My days are now filled with meaning and enjoyment. Rarely do frustrations last more than a few minutes.
Surprisingly, the process to accomplish this result was easy – take each “thing” away and test the void that was created. What specific emotions were produced when it was removed? What pattern can be gleaned from these emotions once things were removed. Over time, I found four recurring themes that drive me. I call them my Elements of Simplicity and they are: Intimacy, Authenticity, Convenience, and Elegance.
Here is how I define each of these in terms of the aspects of my life that were studied:
- Intimacy: I am embraced.
- Authenticity: It is real, not put on or hyped up.
- Convenience: Little or no “maintenance” is required.
- Elegance: Form meets function.
These Elements of Simplicity intermingle at varying levels in every aspect of what I’ve kept in my life. Whether its work, activities, friendships, or time alone, my goal is to maximize one or more of these things during the time I spend on that portion of my world.
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Great post. I am always trying to think of how I can simplify my life and I really appreciated this article.
Wow. Interesting way of looking at simplicity. Just cutting to the heart of life, foucusing only on what is important. I think I try to do that, but not quite in this manner. I like your system.
Thanks,
DSG
Makes sense to me.
Love the approach, will look-up the books.
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I appreciate the thoughtfulness behind your quest for ‘simplicity.’ As I begin my own journey toward simplification, it’s tempting to think I can simply get rid of ‘clutter’ and ‘junk’ and all will be well. I will feel relieved of stress, become instantly happy and wash away all of my problems with a few trips to the Goodwill. I think asking questions, both before and during the process, is what actually gets to the heart of the issue and enables us to dig deeper as a means to achieve a certain sustainability in our efforts. It’s not just about de-cluttering but asking: why do I feel compelled to do this? What do I hope to achieve through my efforts? Can I live this way long-term? Etc.
Thanks for the thoughtful inspiration.
Very nice post Paul. I am going through belongings once more as I lighten the load. My goal is to live a bi-coastal existence as I have a grown child on each coast and love them both to pieces. Plus I love both places. The more I let go, the happier I am. It is the time spent, not the clothes, furniture or knick knacks that matter. Thanks for some good information as I continue on this journey.
Paul – I thoroughly enjoyed reading your thoughtful guest post, especially about what you call the Elements of Simplicity.
Hearing the laughter of my kiddies playing together
Funny how I reformatted my PC and forgot to backup my documents! I felt both a sigh of relief and some worry over how I might need a lot of those documents. and then I realized that most of what I need have been sent over email or stored elsewhere. So now I don’t fret. I’ve analyzed the void and it’s not a void at all!
Now, I want to “reformat” my home and my workspace, too. Great story Paul. thanks.