Weekend Wisdom: When I set a boundary, I’m not saying, “You can’t do that.” I’m saying, “This is what I will do when you do that.”

All I ask for this time of year is a cool down. I want to wear a sweater, light a candle and turn off the air conditioner. I’d like to get in my car after grocery shopping and not yell, “Ow! Ow!” as my legs hit the hot seat and my hands grip the hot steering wheel. I want to go for a walk in the middle of the day without sweating. I’ve mentioned some version of these desires this week for the last few years in my 5-year journal.
Today, all of my dreams came true. It was a cool morning, not sweater cool but good enough cool. And this afternoon, as I tap these words out, I’m sitting next to my window while it pours rain and hail. I might light a candle and make a cup of tea! Tomorrow morning there is a slight possibility that I can wear a sweater for an early morning walk. I’m incredibly grateful.
Ok … onto the favorites
8 books about decluttering to help you simplify your life.
Have a gentle morning with this playlist.
We all deserve to enjoy a version of this beautiful tradition.
This audiobook is gripping.
Clear mental clutter with these 17 household habits.
How to declutter anything.
I’m a fan of the nappuccino.
The story that changed the way I think about what enough really means.
When you are overwhelmed with mess, try the 1-hour reset method.
This is how you use social media to amplify your joy, not your anxiety.
On my next road trip I might listen to this book.
Haha! The comments are way too relatable. (IG)
Cultivate more happiness with 9 lessons from the happiest man in the world.
How to think clearly when everything feels like an emergency.
I enjoyed learning about Dutch minimalism.
This is good news for music lovers.
If the heat of summer is hard for you, these tips may help. NYT gift link.
The art of anticipation.
Simplify your wardrobe so you can enjoy these 7 things.
Yum.
I hope you enjoy these Weekend Favorites, adopt a new household habit, turn on some nice music and find a little peace.
xo,
Courtney









