Digital Detox: Unplug For The Weekend

Unplug

A little time away from the computer, internet, email, Facebook, Twitter, and other bright, flashy, distracting things is necessary every day and each week. Your eyes and your brain deserve a break. Not to mention your entire body.

When you think about how many hours a day you spend hunched over a computer or with your hand around your phone checking email and reacting to alerts, you can see that a little distance may be in order. A digital detox can help.

Get Ready For Your Digital Detox

Set a time limit. Sometimes it’s better to start small and designate an hour or two to unplug. Work up to an entire weekend or longer if possible. Or, if you love a good challenge, go all in and join me this weekend.

Get help. If you can’t resist checking in, use a program like Freedom. Freedom is a simple productivity application that locks you away from the internet on Mac or Windows computers for up to eight hours at a time. At the end of your offline period, Freedom allows you back on the internet. There is a free trial available.

Keep a detox journal. When you feel like checking your email, write a quick note about why you want to or just make a check mark when ever you feel the need. This will demonstrate how frequently you are jonesing for a Twitter or email fix. Write about how you feel. If you are bored, anxious or relieved, jot that down. If you do break down and take a peek, write that down too. Not only will the data be interesting, but it might help with your workflow and internet use moving forward.

Turn off notifications. Closing your computer is only half the battle. What about your phone? To resist temptation, turn off all notifications and completely shut down email. If you can go without your phone completely, do it!

Face your fear. Compulsively checking in and reacting may be second nature for you, and there is a fear of missing out when you are gone for very long. Twitter and Facebook will still be there when you get back. Decide what your most worried about. Are you afraid that you’ll miss something or that you won’t be missed, or that you might be forgotten? A weekend break will squash all of these fears.

Create a team. Challenge your friends and family to join you. This digital detox will be easier with a support team. If you can’t recruit anyone, let everyone know your plan. A level of accountability will keep you on course.

Practice Slotha Yoga. If you are really missing your digital highs, I highly recommend this suggestion from Sabbath: “When you wake up, don’t get up. Stay in bed. Give yourself time to review your dreams. Notice how it feels to be in your body this morning. Watch how the light is coming in your room today, read a little, daydream a little, wonder about breakfast.” One couple mentioned in the book has a ritual of champagne and Scrabble in bed on their Sabbath mornings.

“The fruitful uselessness of rest, play, and delight can begin on a Sabbath morning. Wake up, but do not get up. Do something delightful. Use your imagination, be frivolous, be daring. Invent rituals. Do nothing of significance. Cultivate expertise in Slotha Yoga.” – Wayne Muller

Disconnect to reconnect to what you really want and need in your life.

If you are used to waking up and checking your email or doing a little mindless Facebooking with breakfast, breaking away will feel strange and even a little uncomfortable. That’s ok. You’ll survive it.

Join me this weekend from bedtime Friday night until Monday morning. If you are reading this over the weekend, it’s not too late. Start right now! Turn off your computer and everything on your phone that isn’t the actual phone (unless you want to ditch that too). Once you decide to unplug from the world-wide web, you can plug into the world around you.

Instead of plugging in this weekend …

  • read a good book
  • take a walk
  • write or draw with a pen on paper
  • get a massage
  • putter
  • take a restorative yoga class
  • do jumping jacks
  • go to the library
  • take a nap
  • try a new recipe

Here are a few digital sabbatical articles for extra motivation:

If your constant connection has you feeling unconnected or over connected, it’s time to disconnect.

Can you break away for the weekend? If so, commit below in comments and if you remember, check back in on Monday and let us know how it went. I think you will be surprised at how challenging and rewarding a few days of digital detox can be.

 

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Comments

  1. Tina B says

    About 2 years ago, there were a lot of changes going on at work and I couldn’t decide what I wanted to do. Many of them were impacting me directly. I took some time off and unplugged for 11 days. Being away from everything really brought my priorities into focus. I needed the silence to listen to my heart. I quit my job and moved to a new city 1100 miles away. It was possible THE best decision of my life. That time that I spent unplugged really gave me the clarity that I needed.

  2. says

    I’ve done periodic digital detoxes up to a two weeks long, but it’s still not easy! Nevertheless, it enriches and nourishes me every time. One of my challenges is that my work spills over into the weekend and I feel a responsibility to respond. I need to focus more during the week so I’m able to let go on weekends. Thanks for the encouragement and advice. I’m reading a great book now and would love to immerse myself in it over the weekend!

  3. says

    Hi!

    I do this for a weekend once a year. I go away alone from the city (I live in Mexico City), without a computer, without my smartphone, and disconnect completely for the weekend. It works greatly for me!

  4. says

    Very interesting blog post. We have all been in overdrive to stay up to speed with technology and here comes someone determined to not let technology control her life.

    What do you think about cell phones? Some millionaires like Derek Foster refuse to carry one. Some famous cheapskates like Jeff Yeager refuse to ever ever own one.

    I am intrigued by the new and revitalized “cheapskate” movement which seems to easily blend with many folks interest in becoming more “green” as well as reducing/eliminating debt.

  5. says

    Great suggestions even though I’m very mindful of electronic overload I still catch myself checking mails and other things at inappropriate times. A sabbatical is a great idea

    • Courtney Carver says

      It was a great weekend. It made me realize how much I rely on my phone without ever taking action. It was so nice to enjoy a big snowstorm, bake, and have free time without being connected so I could fully engage in time with my family.

      • Meredith says

        Awesome. Following your lead, I led my own weekend unplug this weekend. I am just now on for the first time since Friday morning. I LOVED IT! I didn’t miss it a bit, and I am really jazzed by how much time I got to spend doing other things instead. Thank you for bringing this up!

  6. Jim says

    I don’t own a laptop or a smartphone, so if I’m not home I’m disconnected. Yes, I do own a desktop computer, I occasionally surf the web, I enjoy googling thing to help whet my appetite on subjects to study and books to read, music to listen to, things like that. In some ways I never joined the new generation and I can’t say I miss it because I chose not to know about it.

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